Katy,
Unfortunately you have just described all the signs of brooding. You can expect to see tiny octos in about a week (see Linda's thread on PoePoe's hatchlings for a recent photo of another small egg species). Unfortunately, she is a small egg species and we have not figured out how to raise the planktonic hatchlings (we do have some success with the larger egg species that have benthic young).
Unfortunately you have just described all the signs of brooding. You can expect to see tiny octos in about a week (see Linda's thread on PoePoe's hatchlings for a recent photo of another small egg species). Unfortunately, she is a small egg species and we have not figured out how to raise the planktonic hatchlings (we do have some success with the larger egg species that have benthic young).