I haven't seen her out in quite awhile, but I can find her easily because her den is fairly visible if you know where to look. I put a shrimp in the tank the other day and she looked at it, but never made an attempt to catch it that I saw. Not sure how much time I have left.
My what long arms you have . I always love your "videos of mom and the octopus" features. Great photos! I particularly like the 7th one down for a personality shot. The 4th, 5th and 6th DO suggest he is a male!